Profile: Nariman a.k.a Putri

Wherever the wind blows :), Singapore
I'm a Jack of all Trades. But a Master of None. However, my primary passion is in Teaching. I'm very expressive with my emotions .... hence ... I'm no good in a poker game :) Love all the romanticism that life can offer. Love my family, my one and ONLY. Last but not least my surrogate family my baby Princess and Chomelanggun.

Sunday, November 09, 2008

Space, Trust and Freedom

The three things most people want. ....

Space - the unlimited or incalculably great three-dimensional realm or expanse in which all material objects are located and all events occur. Our own personal space: if have we would treasure and if we have none we would crave for it.

A space where we can grow into it or grow with it as long as time would allow it. Deprivation of of our own space can make one feels almost like being in solitary confinement. ... ok maybe I am exaggerating just a little :)

Trust - reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. But how can we show one that we are anyone can be trusted?? Its our very actions and our past record that will bring us credit to our present character reference.

Trust is something that you earned ... not meet and say ... "I give you trust to do as you wish. Anything happens to you - you are not my responsibility ..."

As long as one NEVER fails to tell the truth. THAN ... there won't be any secrets will there!! In life sometimes and almost all the time - mutual trust is essential. If one is forever suspicious of every single action that the other party does and every single action has to be justified. ... after awhile one will get jaded of just plain living!!

Freedom - the power to determine action without restraint. But with freedom comes responsibility. Every decision we make .. we walk through the consequences of that decision and make us the person from those very action.

Its important to have supportive people around you can trust with your life be it a family, relative or friend. I find that listening plays a vital role in our life. So people LISTEN and change your mindset or you might find that you will soon loose the person closest to you.

Please be weary of the people you are with and people you socialise. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

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